Love is a matter of chance; matrimony is a matter of money, and divorce - a

Today is Australia Day. Nominated as Australian of the Year is a woman who is a campaigner against men on domestic violence on women and children.

Article was published in The Guardian newspaper. Noticed my comments have been deleted. Hehehe

Article was published in The Guardian newspaper. Noticed my comments have been deleted. Hehehe

Too late to hide it now. It's all around us now. A couple of days ago, a woman, 10 weeks pregnant, was tomahawked to death in the Gold Coast in a domestic dispute.

"If the people cannot trust their government to do the job for which it exists -- to protect them and to promote their common welfare -- all else is lost."
( Barack Obama)
 

Migrated here in Australia in ’80 as a bachelor. At that time, fad for Aussie blokes to go to Philippines and bring Pinays here as brides. 
Why? Aussie wives were renowned for being husband bashers. Not that easy in the Philippines. Will lose face to say the least. Hehehe

Joined the bandwagon. That’s how got married. Hehehe

The world has changed. Thanks to the invention of the internet, Pinay in the Philippines quickly learns about Australian culture via online. Ready to adapt to it when she marries and migrates oversea.

The moral is, should you marry a Pinay, don't live in Australia.

Ooops! Not quite. Believe the best solution is no to marriage -- mag live in lang in the Philippines.

Some comments on Australian Family System. Potential thief Pinays will be interested.

Tom Ster 5 days ago
 +juan
propaganda is all those words are meant for to spook the ignorant masses while the system creates a means of doing as little as they can to get paid the same and if that means systematically screwing one side over then so be it. as evil as it is for some women to try to get away with being so evil, is it not more evil for the system to, not only let them but first, to dangle that temptation in from of them?  these women know, before going into court, before even breaking up, before there is even a reason to break up, before even saying "i do" at the alter, that on a whim, they can make this man suffer to no end.  women who do this are whores, using men as nothing but sperm donors and atms, they cant possibly have any emotional ties with a man if she can do this to him.  but if you took away that temptation from the start, balanced the system evenly, so each case is judged on its own merrits, this would happen so much less and the courts would not be flooded.  the courts say they cant do this because of the fear of flooding. but the courts like the flooding. why? it pays their bills. keeps the budget higher. more judges, lawyers, clerks and so on. its a rich money making scheme. dont be fooled. its the systems fault from the top. greedy jerks who lie to get votes and basically steal tax money for their own pockets.  why else are these people always first up against the wall when the revolution starts?

Yeah, this really scary!

Say, someone like Adelyn comes into my world ... enrolls her in engineering ... what happens after grad?
She will become a young fresh grad engineer ... Australian passport holder ... will certainly dramatically surge ang iyang pagka-"every man's dream". Doesn't need me anymore.

Daghan jud kaaung young prick moluhod sa iyang atubangan.

So, what are the chances that she won't walk out on me? Not a comforting thought at all!

Yeah, this really scary!

Say, someone like Adelyn comes into my world ... enrolls her in engineering ... what happens after grad?
She will become a young fresh grad engineer ... Australian passport holder ... will certainly dramatically surge ang iyang pagka-"every man's dream". Doesn't need me anymore.

Daghan jud kaaung young prick moluhod sa iyang atubangan.

So, what are the chances that she won't walk out on me? Not a comforting thought at all!

Intelligent women usually make better wives. Understand values better. Morons are hopeless.

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Thought some might be interested in this.

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Hello all,

My wife and I have just seperated after 2 years marriage. Prior to this she was living and working overseas on cruise ships (she is filipino national) and we had a relationship in 2002 for 6 months on ship then she flew to australia each year for about a month at a time. overall prior to february 2008 when she arrived she had been in australia for a total of about 100 odd days in the 5 years. She arrived february 2008 and we married june 2008 and had our daughter march this year. She has just satisfied the 2 year residency but has not received confirmation of her being a resident. Basically I have discovered hundreds of emails to another guy she has been seeing all this time as well prior to her coming to aus and maybe a couple of other fellows as well.

She has contributed nothing prior to marriage to the asset base and since marriage she has earnt about 60000 dollars and sent 10000 of this back home.

For obvious reasons now she did not want to sign a Pre Nup as we have 4 houses all in my name all bought prior to her settling in australia but since we started going out in 2002. I managed to get her to sign a Binding Financial Agreement last month which gives her the proceeds of the sale of 2 houses maybe 100000 or so.

Enough of the money - dont really care.........

My beautiful daughter...........after 12 weeks old my wife went back to work I flew her sisters out to help with the baby and the baby was on formula and the mother breast fed at night sporadically. When my daughter was 4 months old I discovered the emails and sent the sisters packing and have been looking after my daughter each day with the wife still present but at work and the baby on the bottle and again the wife feeding her from the boob at night. This has been the case for two months me at home on holidays looking after her care

She has just moved out as I have had to get a Aus Fed Police alert on my daughter as she is a flight risk. That upset my wife as she wants to take her home but she had threatened me with not returning. I had no other option. We also have court booked for early October due to the nature of the alert. She has as i said moved out and feeding from the boob now I am sure to establish her as primary carer. She is still dropping the baby off to me when she is working as it saves her on childcare. I will have her until mid september at this stage.

What are my chances of having my daughter one week on and one week off? Has anyone had a win like that.

We are also going to mediation but she is sticking to her guns and saying when I am back at work I can only see her once a week on my day off.

There are no Stay-away orders YET. i am sure they will come. I have provided a beautiful home and future for my family but now it is all up in the air.

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Not meant to offend the Pinay. Otherwise, I won't be looking for a Pinay wife. Just want to show that not all apples in that basket are good ones. There's a few rotten ones. So to speak.

Yeah, this really scary!

Say, someone like Adelyn comes into my world ... enrolls her in engineering ... what happens after grad?
She will become a young fresh grad engineer ... Australian passport holder ... will certainly dramatically surge ang iyang pagka-"every man's dream". Doesn't need me anymore.

Daghan jud kaaung young prick moluhod sa iyang atubangan.

So, what are the chances that she won't walk out on me? Not a comforting thought at all!

Yep. Tingali mao ni akong buhaton. To safeguard myself against potential thief Pinay, di ko mag minyo. Mag live in lang.

The circumstances I'm in makes me an enticingly lucrative prey for unscrupulous women.

Dli matagna ang panahon. She may change over time. What's most important for me is her loyalty -- not my money. But, then again, miles down the track, she might walk out on me. I'd be back to where I'm now.

wish I could find someone who needs me because she loves me;
And not someone who loves me because she needs me.
 

'coz when she no longer needs me, ......